We make plans, but something goes awry. This is where adaptability is key. Adaptability means we don’t freak out or get angry. We pivot. We change and reset our course. Oftentimes people focus on how smart someone is. We need a modicum of intelligence to succeed, but we need adaptability by the truckloads for successful outcomes…
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The New Month…
September has arrived. I want to encourage you, to challenge you to set a goal for the month. Make it something that enhances your life. Then commit to it. After thirty days you will have formed a new habit. You can do it…
Interview With Cheryl Williams
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Cheryl Williams is a survivor and a fighter. She was abused emotionally, physically, sexually and spiritually until her teenage years when she was placed in foster care. She has healed from the trauma of her life, and now dedicates her life to foster kids. Click on the link to listen to our lively interview…
Endless…
When we are experiencing pain, it seems like it will never end. The painful period will end eventually. It’s during these times that resilience is built and our resolve is hardened. Keep going…
A Little Fun!
Every now and then, take some time to have fun. Life will always be a struggle. Getting your mind off of your challenges and troubles, even for a little while, will strengthen you. Life’s problems will be waiting for you…
Interview With Zetti Carnell
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The first interview I did for my podcast was with Zetti. Although I had been interviewed hundreds of times, I had never interviewed anyone else. She made my job easy because she openly and transparently shared her life story. Hollywood couldn’t script a better story. Click on the link to listen. You will not be disappointed…
What To Say…
What do you say when you don’t know what to say?
Thursday evening, I received an email from a dear friend of mine. She was letting me know that her beautiful, bright 24 year old daughter had committed suicide in early July. I was stunned and extremely sad at the same time. You want to say something to take away the pain they are feeling, but there are no words. All I could say was that I would keep her and all of her family in my prayers, praying for peace and clarity. And that I was sending light and love to them.
There are no words in these situations. Just be there.
The Past and The Future…
“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending” –
C. S. Lewis
After my book was published, I heard from so many people who were mired in past hurts, trauma and lacking confidence. Our Creator didn’t create us to be average or mediocre. We are here for a greater purpose. Life will always be a struggle, no doubt. But I encourage you to find your purpose and live it. Bravely.

Experts…
Have you noticed how people become “experts” in whatever the divisiveness of the day is? One day we have experts in the constitution, followed by the epidemiologists, and then the same people become military strategists. Opinions are merely opinions, not facts. Seek truth, nothing more…
Outcomes…
All of us have regrets. We must let go of them, learn from them, and not allow ourselves to be mired down by them. Wherever you are in life, you have the ability to set the course of your own future. Ask for guidance from the Creator. He will show you the way to your destiny…
