Spirituality

Blended

Do you own a blender? Mine gets used regularly. Taking dry powder and mixing with a liquid until it becomes smooth got an upgrade with the invention of the blender rather than mixing by hand!

What about people? There are those who just want to fit in, go with the flow and be part of the crowd. You might say they have blended in. There’s nothing wrong with that, until there is. Let me explain.

Everyone wants their life to matter, to make a difference. This can cause some discomfort. You might be called to do something that requires you to stand out. You will be exposed as being different, set apart from the comfort of the crowd.

You can choose to remain silent, staying in the background while you know you have to stand up and stand out. In these moments, it’s important to remember that you have outgrown the crowd. This is your moment, your leadership moment.

My encouragement to you is to take the chance. Separating from the flow, getting uncomfortable is where growth happens. Embrace it. Don’t run from your calling.

The critics will be there. You know, the ones who never do anything worthwhile. They complain but don’t offer any creative solutions to make this world better.

When you’re taking a stand for what’s good and right, you will be doing what God smiles at. Keep going…

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The Sadness of Forgiveness

Everyone has been hurt by others. That’s universal. And we have all hurt other people. That is universal, too. But what do we do with the pain?

Forgiveness requires a lot. We must get over our desire to hurt back. When we let go of our need for revenge we can move to the next step: Letting go of the past hurt. By letting go we aren’t giving the offender a “hall pass” for the offense. But we are releasing any potential power it may have over us. This is when the power of forgiveness accelerates.

There’s a sadness that can occur when we forgive. It’s almost like losing a friendship, even though it isn’t a good friendship. When the desire to let go overtakes the desire to hold on, we have arrived.

This takes time. It can’t be rushed or forced. Forced outcomes aren’t genuine. Forgiveness is growth, too. Forgiveness is for you, not the offender.

If you are holding on to a hurt from the past, it is my hope that you will move forward on the road to forgiveness. Keep healthy boundaries up so it doesn’t happen again. But don’t shut down completely. Isolation is as harmful as lack of forgiveness.

Everything begins with gratitude…

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Spirituality

On The Move

Our bodies are meant to get us from one place to another. Safely! Are you taking care of yours?

The body is a magnificent machine. When combined with the brain, we can accomplish amazing things. I’m not saying everyone can be an Olympic athlete, but we can build strength, have more confidence, and perhaps even be an inspiration to others. Anything is possible when we believe.

If you haven’t exercised in a while, start with some simple exercises. Walk. Do some sit ups, pushups and body squats. Planks are good for your core. You don’t need a high-priced gym membership. You have everything you need right at home. The main thing is, get moving.

Your mind will kick in when you begin exercising. It will remind you to eat real foods, not processed or junk foods. It’s up to you to listen to what your brain is telling you. You will be on the road to success when you do listen, though.

Get your bank account prepared. You will need a new wardrobe if you commit to exercising regularly.

It’s my hope for you that you find joy in movement. You aren’t destined for a life of pain, tightness or a medicine cabinet full of pills. The choice is yours…

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Spirituality

Never Enough

Every time I hear a pathetic, pandering politician talking about “paying your fair share,” I want to slap them back to reality. Let’s look at some simple math.

Over the past 20 years, the government has collected about $80 trillion dollars in taxes from all sources. Yet, the same government has spent over $110 trillion during the same period. Can you imagine what shape taxpayers would be in if we ran our household budgets the same way?

Perhaps our members of Congress would be more effective if they spent our money carefully. Every year, the government reports hundreds of billions of improper payments from Medicare and Medicaid alone. Is there no oversight? Government could learn a few things about running government more like a business than a never-dying bureaucracy.

The philanthropic world gets it right. The faith community, too. They budget wisely and use their money from donations well. There are outliers, of course, but they are a small percentage. Personally, I would rather give much of what I pay in taxes to them rather than the government. Their track records speak for themselves.

This out of control spending isn’t sustainable. We can grow our way through this, and that means lowering income taxes, putting more money in the pockets of the consumers. Consumer spending makes up over 70% of our economy. Raising taxes squeezes the ones who drive economic growth.

The politicians are about to hit us up for donations. The midterms are on the horizon. I have never donated to a politician. If I want to waste my money, I’m heading to Las Vegas!

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Spirituality

User Friendly

When I need a technology issue solved, I find a young person. Typically the person is a teenager. Technology is great, but not always user friendly to me.

The world is rapidly changing. Some of the changes are good, some not so good. In my city, our City Council voted to defund our police department by one third. What is your best guess at what happened? If you guessed that crime skyrocketed, you would be correct. And we have a huge shortage of police officers with only two academy classes scheduled for 2026.

My Google Maps are out to get me. In Washington DC, it sent me the exact opposite way I wanted to go. There is beauty in getting lost, though. My diversion allowed me to see some things I wouldn’t have otherwise. And, I got in an extra 8,000 steps. I’m always optimistic!

There is a reason many items come with instructions on how to use them. But we have to read the instructions to learn how to use the items properly. It’s the same for the Bible. God gave us a manual for life. If we don’t read it then we learn the hard way.

We live in a beautiful world, regardless of our political divide. Most people are good. Take the time to have meaningful conversations with people, even those you disagree with. Then their point of view may become more user friendly…

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Always in Style

The music from the 1960’s and 1970’s was some of the best ever written and produced. James Bond is always cool. Men wear white shirts after 5:00, and thank God the disco-era clothes didn’t last! But there are some intangibles that never go out of style.

Kindness is always welcome. So is meekness. Meekness gets a bad rap. People believe a meek person is weak. Far from it. Meekness means “strength under control.” Good manners aren’t noticed so much until you witness someone with bad manners. Standing up for the weak is both respected and revered. Doing what’s right when you are standing alone is in the mix, too.

Our outer appearance is what people see, but our clothes and hairstyles don’t tell the whole story. The heart of man is what matters. All the other stuff is fluff.

Stay true to yourself, to who you are, no matter the crowd. Let your guard down to reveal your true self. Your clothes might be from a different era, but if your heart is right nobody will notice them. Others won’t remember what you wear, but they will remember the impact you made on them…

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A Loss of Two Sons

This week in Texas, a young man named Karmelo Anthony was found guilty of murder. His defense attorney called it self defense, but his case was very thin. The jury sentenced Anthony to 35 years in prison. He could have gotten 99.

What started as a scuffle between two high school kids escalated when Anthony pulled a knife from his backpack and stabbed Austin Metcalf. It didn’t have to happen. I’m not certain why a high school kid brought a knife to a track meet. This question has never been answered.

Good can come from this. In prison, Karmelo Anthony will have the opportunity to rehabilitate himself. It is up to him, but with God, all things are possible. This 35 year diversion may get the young man’s attention and get his priorities straight. We can only hope and pray.

The sad truth is, two families lost a son that day in the spring of 2025. Nothing will bring them back. Forgiveness will play a huge part in this story. And when God steps in, miracles happen…

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New News Sources. Please!

Objective journalism died with Walter Cronkite. No one has been able to take his place. But even in the days just after Cronkite, the news media was more respectful than they are today. For an example, watch the final interview with Ronald Reagan in the Oval Office, conducted by Tom Brokaw.

The news is even harder to tolerate because they aren’t always truthful. They report what they want us to hear which isn’t always the truth. Honesty in journalism is an oxymoron. But there is hope.

As hard as news media tries to sway people, they forgot one thing. People are smarter than the media gives them credit. People are more discerning. The media thinks we aren’t very bright. They are sorely mistaken.

The only source we can believe in wholeheartedly is the Bible. Scripture is inspired by God. It holds true today and it will be true in a thousand years.

Trust God. Question everything else…

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The Beauty of Washington, DC

For the next few days, I’m in Washington, DC. This city stirs something in me. Although the United States is a relatively young country, we are rich with history.

Today I will be visiting the National Archives, home of the Constitution, Bill of Rights and the Declaration of Independence. These are the documents this unique country stands on. From there, on to the American History Museum, the National Mall, the Museum of The Bible, and of course, the monuments.

The United States isn’t perfect. Our Republic has learned and grown. Yet, at our core, we are the most benevolent country on earth. We are a fortunate, free people.

If you have never been to DC, I encourage you to visit. Be prepared to walk. And you should walk. There are monuments everywhere, and I do mean everywhere

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The Price of Gratitude

For as long as I can remember, I have been a grateful man. This isn’t to suggest I haven’t been through some difficult times. There have been some, but I refused to give in to any anger or resentment. Those things will destroy you from within.

Actively practicing gratitude changes the biochemistry of your brain. You begin to see the world through a bigger, more beautiful lens. But this comes at a cost; a trade off, if you will.

You lose the mindset of lack, fear of missing out, and your mind shifts towards what you have. There’s a lot of good in your life and mine. For example, if you can read this, don’t take it for granted. A blind man would trade places with you in a heartbeat to be able to have his vision back.

Gratitude has a cost. But what you gain through gratitude is worth everything you will release from your mind…

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