Spirituality

False Alarm

How many times have you worried about something that turned out to be a waste of your time? Most chronic worriers can’t count that high. Worry is wasted energy, so let’s talk about it.

It is estimated that over 90% of the things people worry about never come to pass. Ninety percent! But this is more alarming: you have used up time worrying about something and you cannot get the time back.

We have a finite amount of time on this planet to accomplish our purpose. God alone knows our end date. He has given us exactly enough time to do His will through us. Here’s the remarkable part of this: God doesn’t force us to do anything. It’s up to us.

If worry is a challenge for you, I encourage you to work on eliminating it from your life. It begins with your attitude. Believe that you can control your thoughts and emotions, then flip the script when worry presents itself. You can do it if you believe you can.

Finally, remember this when worry creeps in: everything always seems to work out the way it’s supposed to…

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Creating a Vision

It’s political season, in case you haven’t noticed. My phone is blown up every day by someone asking for money to help fund their campaign. I have never given a politician any money, and I’m not going to start now.

How do you see yourself? All of us have a vision for our lives. Some are stronger than others. Sometimes the future seems cloudy and uncertain. It’s during these periods we must hold on tightly to the vision we have for our future.

We are progressing towards something. Some people just want to make it to the weekend. Others allow weekends to go unnoticed because they are building their vision into reality.

When you find your purpose for being here, you feel more alive than you ever have. You are energized. Every thought is consumed by something meaningful.

Create a vision for your life. Commit to it. Hold it in your heart. Your circumstances may change, but your vision doesn’t have to…

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Mind Games

Years ago, Earl Nightingale told us some truth when he said “we become what we think about.” Nightingale wasn’t the first to say this. Rene Descartes wrote “I think, therefore I am” in 1637. So what’s the point?

Our mindset will determine our success. When we picture a desired outcome, energize it with emotion, there is no place for doubt in our mind. Our mental picture of us succeeding overpowers any hurdles or setbacks we might encounter.

The mind is powerful. It is way more powerful than any supercomputer ever built. Artificial Intelligence is pretty amazing, but it doesn’t reach the level our brains are capable of. Our brains are one of the greatest gifts the Creator gave us.

Your mind can work against you, too. It can trick you into thinking that your situation will always be the same, that you are powerless to change. Nothing could be more untrue. If you have fallen into this trap, you must take control of your thoughts and build new, positive neural pathways.

The mind will work towards what you believe. I encourage you to tap into the powerful resource between your ears! Direct your thoughts to what you want from this life. It is waiting for you…

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Ridiculous Ideas

When you’re a parent, you must be ready for some of the ridiculous ideas your children will propose. It is fascinating to see the world through the eyes of a child, to watch how their minds work.

Some of the most idiotic ideas are generated in Congress. In early September, The Thirty Two hour Work Week Act was introduced by Representative Mark Takano in the House, followed by Senator Bernie Sanders in the Senate. This act would reduce the federal standard work week to 32 hours from its present 40 hours. Now it is fair to note that neither of these men have ever worked in the private sector, only government jobs.

What’s wrong with a 32 hour work week? Nothing is wrong if you like chaos for employers followed by inflation for all of us. It’s doubtful the bills get out of committee, yet crazier things have happened.

People are starving for the truth. We want to know what is real, what we can hold onto. Longtime readers know where I’m going with this.

Scripture is true, right and beneficial for a fulfilling life. Want to get smarter? In The Book of James the author tells us to ask God for wisdom. He will give it in abundance, but only if we believe. Everything faith-related begins with belief. Give it a try…

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Newness

We have begun a new week! All year long we hear about new products, projects and opportunities. We begin the year with New Years Resolutions, and I hear “New Year New You” so often I want to puke.

It’s estimated that only a small percentage of people keep their resolutions. Many have thrown in the towel in less than three weeks. As I have written before, this is harmful. Set one goal/resolution, commit to it and don’t let anything stop you.

When I was growing up, it seemed like some product was labeled “new and improved” every week. We don’t hear this too often anymore. There are probably no more improvements to be made in laundry detergent and toothpaste!

The media gets ahold of a new story and beat it to death until something new replaces it. There’s always plenty of craziness to report.

Newness only happens once. Joe Namath guaranteed the New York Jets would win the Super Bowl. But many players have copied Namath. Some even acting like they are the first to issue a guarantee. Seeking fame has no shame.

The truth comes from Solomon who wrote, “there is nothing new under the sun.” Words to consider…

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Building Trust

All solid relationships are built on trust. This takes time. Being reliable and consistent are two of the foundations of a trusting relationship.

Someone comes to mind from my past who was both reliable and consistent, but not necessarily in a good way. If we were supposed to meet at 1:00, she might show up 20-30 minutes late. Every single time. So I could rely on her to be late. And she was consistent!

Why is it difficult for us to trust God? I admit it’s a challenge and I do not understand why. He’s reliable, by His nature God cannot lie. He can’t even stretch the truth. God’s timing is perfect. So why is it hard?

Perhaps it’s hard to trust God because we can’t see Him. Maybe it’s because He doesn’t always give us everything we want. If He did we would be spoiled brats who never grew. We wouldn’t be changed. Why change when everything is going well?

Faith is strengthened when we place our wholehearted trust in God. He knows what we need before we ask. Our faith becomes exponentially stronger when we continue to trust even when life is a shitshow. Holding on to faith when everything around us tells us not to will test us. Resilience is built in the darkness. So is trust.

Let’s pass the test and watch what happens…

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Fresh Approach

Do you approach life with confidence or trepidation? We were created by God and meant to live full, meaningful lives on this side of eternity. God and fear cannot coexist.

Life can be hard and it can be harsh. In some ways we are a bunch of imperfect, damaged people trying to live together in a sometimes chaotic world. It sounds like a recipe for disaster, right? But there is a solution.

When we were born we didn’t have fear, worry or hang ups. As little children we were fearless. Life knocked us around and some had their confidence shaken. Some of us had abusive parents who didn’t prepare us for life. But inside of us we wanted to grow. Even the most fearful people know this.

If you are still living with fear and want to break free, I encourage you to do the difficult inner work on yourself. You might have to revisit some painful parts of your life, but you will get through it. If someone hurt you they cannot hurt you again.

Do the work. Give yourself the freedom you deserve. Ask God to guide you through it. He will show up every time. This is a promise…

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What Goes Around…

Someone recently asked me if I believe in karma. My immediate answer was, “Sure! Everything we do comes back to us.”

When our actions are good, altruistic even, then the goodness we place into the world will return to us. It may not happen immediately, but it will happen.

At the same time, nefarious activities come back to us as well. There is Scripture that confirms this. Proverbs 22:8 says, “Whoever sows injustice reaps calamity, and the rod they wield in fury will be broken.” In Galatians, Paul wrote, “Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows.” — Galatians 6:7

There are always temptations to take shortcuts. Students have been caught plagiarizing. This laziness has invaded the professional world, too. There was a case where an attorney used ChatGPT to write a legal brief. He didn’t double check his work. If he had he would have learned that AI cited a case that didn’t exist.

Our world is both beautiful and it’s a chaotic mess. We have a choice. We can add to the beauty by making a difference in the lives of our fellow man, or we can add to the craziness.

Choose wisely…

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Boxed Out

“Boxed out” usually means excluded, shut out, or prevented from participating. Is this how we treat God sometimes?

God has unlimited power. He can do anything and I mean anything. The problem lies with us, not Him. When we show unbelief we are limiting God’s participation in our lives.

There is an example of this in the New Testament. When Jesus went to his hometown the Bible says “he couldn’t do many miracles there.” The people still saw him as Joseph the carpenters son they grew up with. The Messiah was in their presence yet they missed it.

The truth is, Jesus could do miracles there among the people who knew him since childhood. But their lack of faith probably wasn’t a great motivator. “A prophet is never recognized among his own people,” Jesus said (paraphrased).

Believe. Just believe and then act like you believe. Jesus told us “when we pray we should act like we have already received what we prayed for.” (Paraphrased)

Put some emotion into your prayers. Believe and receive. And don’t box God out. He is interested in every aspect of your life…

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Great Expectations

Please don’t be confused by the title. This column is not about the Charles Dickens novel. When I was in middle school I was forced to read it. The book is known as a classic, but for me reading the book felt like child abuse!

Have you ever been disappointed? This is a rhetorical question because I know you have been. In this life we will experience unmet expectations. Although a situation didn’t turn out the way we wanted or hoped for, we don’t have to change course.

When we were kids we had dreams. Big dreams. We were going to set the world on fire. Then life came along and knocked us around. Some gave up. They threw in the towel on pursuing their dreams. It doesn’t have to be this way.

Life is imperfect. You can go after what you want. This life will give you all your desires if you refuse to accept defeat. Drifting through life and accepting whatever comes your way is not living fully. It’s merely existing.

Past setbacks and failures are where they belong, in the past. I encourage you to pursue the full life you desire, realizing that every expectation might not be fulfilled immediately. But keep going and set your goals high.

Dwell in possibility…

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