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Make More Mistakes

In order to do something great with our lives, we must be willing to take risks. “Nothing ventured, nothing gained” as the saying goes. The fear of failure can be a deterrent, but only when you believe you gotta get things right every time.

We learn through our mistakes. When we do something correctly we aren’t required to learn a new, better way. Mistakes and setbacks are part of this imperfect life we are living.

Years ago, I was asked to be a guest teacher for a business principles college class. The curriculum I put together for the class was a list of eighteen lessons I learned during my career from mistakes I had made. We only got through five of them. Teaching the class is something I will always remember.

Success is a growth process. It rarely happens overnight, but it will happen when you work hard, work smart and refuse to quit when things get tough. You must be tougher!

Edison made mistakes. So did Einstein. Musk has blown up a lot of rockets while trying to figure out how to get one into space. We remember these individuals and others for their accomplishments. None of them published a memoir of their mistakes, but they could have.

Be willing to try and fail. Then be willing to try again. And again. And again. Until you find success. A dream without action is a waste…

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We Were Warned

In his 1796 farewell address, President George Washington urged Americans to “actively preserve the constitutional system rather than take it for granted.” President Reagan said “Freedom is never more than one generation away from extinction.” Voter apathy remains a concern, but there are bright spots.

The United States is in the bottom half of developed countries when it comes to voter turnout. School board elections run around 20% turnout while federal midterms hover around 45%. These numbers are abysmal. What are the reasons?

Trust in government has steadily declined since the 1960’s. Many people believe their votes don’t matter because the same people continue getting elected. It’s important to remember that we the people have a government, not the other way around.

Government is important, but it’s very rarely a solution to the challenges most people face. The politicians want you to think they have the answers, but their track record is horrible. The politicians waste our resources, yet they still want more from us. They haven’t earned our trust because of reckless spending, so they don’t deserve more.

My encouragement to you is to get educated about your candidates. Challenge them on their rhetoric. Then hold them accountable when their actions don’t align with their promises…

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The State of Discontent

People change when they want to. I’ve heard many alcoholics say they “got sick and tired of being sick and tired.” They embraced sobriety, worked the 12 steps of AA and changed their lives.

Contentment can be an ambition killer. We are here for a purpose, a purpose that impacts others for good. Going to work, coming home and watching television then doing it all over again the next day won’t get you where you want to be. When you get discontented with your life then you will change. The pain of staying where you are is worse than the uncertainty of moving forward.

Fulfillment comes when we are working at something greater than ourselves. We are contributing to the greater good. And when you see someone trying to make a change, offer some encouragement to them. Your words might be what they need in the moment.

Find your purpose. You have one. In fact, you may have several. Keep going when you find it, no matter what happens. God gave you the purpose. He will see you through…

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What Gives, California?

The state of California is a paradise. The entire state is beautiful, from the Bay Area to the south. In 2002, I drove from San Diego to Tehachapi, California for dinner. The route took me through fragrant strawberry fields and strikingly beautiful green hills.

On January 7, 2025 a fire started in the Pacific Palisades area west of Los Angeles. It burned for 24 days, destroying over 23,000 acres. Twelve people died in the fire.

The damage was significant. Over 6,800 homes were burned to the ground. Almost 1000 more were damaged. The politicians promised that permitting and rebuilding would be swift. Of course this was a lie. A colossal lie. As of May 2026, only 28 homes have been rebuilt. Twenty eight in fifteen months.

The Empire State Building was built in 410 days. It is 102 floors with over 2.8 million square feet. The building came in on time and under budget. Perhaps the feckless politicians in California could learn something from this example.

Anything is possible when you have the right people running the show. Look no further than the Empire State Building…

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Free Food!

Online I have been seeing a surge in advertising for food services. They promise “free bacon or ribeyes for life!” But I’m skeptical. Very skeptical…

Personally, I have used the same company for over twenty years to buy steaks from. They sell prime beef shipped directly to my home from Chicago. Every experience I have had has been great. And the steaks are outstanding.

Every now and then the company will provide some complementary hamburgers. But there’s no gimmick or trickery involved.

Buying direct has some risks, but it has advantages, too. It saves time and the quality is always better.

Well, I gotta run. Today is a busy day, and I need to place an order for some ribeyes!

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Cooperation

Cooperation is the act of working together to achieve a desired outcome. Everything from business to marriage needs some cooperation.

Congress has become so partisan that they should learn the art of cooperation. It seems the only time the two parties can agree on anything is when they are voting for a raise for themselves. Shouldn’t the American people be the ones who control when and if Congress gets a bump in income?

Cooperation is biblical, too. In Ecclesiastes 4:9 it says, “Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor.” Again, perhaps Congress should visit Scripture before they convene.

There are some who just want things their way. They have no room for compromise. Stay away from the people who have closed minds. “My way or the highway” is seldom a solid strategy.

Be open minded when taking on a new project. Cooperate with others. Two heads usually are better than one…

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Surrounded

There is noise everywhere in this world. Some good. Some not worth our attention. How do we discern the good from the bad? Keep reading.

Our minds are thinking constantly. Our thoughts have been influenced by what we read, watch on television or the internet, and what we believe. It’s a challenge to turn the noise off and quieten our minds. But it is possible.

When we get an inspiration to do something good or worthwhile, you can usually count on the thought having come from God. Conversely, selfish thoughts which benefit only us are evil temptations.

It’s important to surround ourselves with good people, the ones who challenge us to think. Keep the negative people away. Don’t let them into your sphere. It’s our decision about who we get close to.

Filter the negative energy out as best you can. Look for the good energy. Both are available, and we get to choose…

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Tough Talk

Once again, the Iranian leadership (what’s left of it anyway) has threatened the United States over the possible takeover of Kharg Island. The U. S. will face “serious consequences” if we continue down this path. Right…

Bullies talk a big game, too. Here’s a fact: people who engage in bullying behavior are the most scared people in the room. They are scared so they want you to be scared, too. Standing up to a bully is the quickest way to see them fold.

The Bible teaches us to use “gentleness and self-control” in our dealings. Those characteristics will reach the heart of mankind faster than tough talk will. And you make a lasting impression on the person you are dealing with.

The Iranians will continue to make false threats. They can’t back up their tough talk. But our leaders can. In the negotiations they use a different tone. Hopefully sprinkled with some gentleness…

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Building Strength

Proper weight training can make a person strong. There are many benefits to building muscle. Your body becomes a fat-burning machine while increasing your metabolism. It takes time but it is time well spent.

But today I’m writing about a different type of strength: inner strength. Inner strength is the ability to work through whatever life throws your way. We don’t know what the future holds, and most of it is good. But there will be times you will be tested.

Inner strength is built in the dark times, not when things are going well. Children need to learn that they can bounce back from failures and mistakes. Wrapping them in bubble wrap so they never have to feel bad is preparing them to crumble in adulthood. Mommy and daddy will not be around to pick them up every time they fall.

As a parent, I will tell you it is heartbreaking to see your child hurting. But it is necessary. My son makes a bad grade? He should have studied harder. Gets in trouble with the law for trespassing? Obey the law. Teach kids to get through the difficulties, not get out of them.

Life is usually pretty routine. It can even be boring. But when it brings you unforeseen challenges, you will handle them if you were prepared with inner strength as a child…

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