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Wasted Energy

Why do people care so much about who people vote for? This is a personal choice and privilege. People have their reasons to support a candidate whether I agree with them or not. It’s not my business, nor is it yours.

The political season has gone from several months to every day. You go to a concert, it’s there. A talented artist believes their opinion is worth sharing with the audience. What they forget about is that half the audience may support the other side. Without fans the artists don’t have shit.

We have only so much time on this side of eternity. Only God knows our checkout date. But He has given us exactly enough time to accomplish what He created us for. Why don’t we focus our energy on the things that will get us where we are supposed to go? Fighting over a politician, any politician, is wasted energy.

Get outside. Enjoy your family. Take in everything around you. Savor this beautiful life. And when you feel the urge to lash out at someone over their politics, ask yourself why.

Go make your mark on this era you are living in. It won’t last forever, but the legacy you create will…

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What A Privilege It Is

Privileges are special rights, advantages, opportunities, or benefits that a person or group enjoys, often because of their position, status, circumstances, or accomplishments. But what about the privileges we take for granted?

Freedom of speech is something we have in the United States. Our Constitution has broad protections for speech that exceeds every other country. People have the right to say things that are offensive. They can protest (hopefully peacefully). In October 1990 the ACLU went to court to defend the KKK’s right to march. They weren’t defending the Klan’s beliefs. They were defending their constitutional right.

We who were born in the United States have privileges some countries don’t. We have clean running water and plenty of food in our grocery stores. If you live in parts of Africa and South America you don’t have the same access to these items.

Privileges are not just about what we have, but what we are doing with them. It’s a great question to consider…

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Backtracking

Most days I get outside and take a walk. Living in Texas I can usually depend upon agreeable weather. And I can walk much farther than I can run.

Yesterday I got temporarily lost in my neighborhood. My sense of curiosity took me down some streets I had never walked through before. The scenery was beautiful, but I realized my short attention span had taken over. Obviously I found my way home since I’m writing this!

I see people who are living their lives in the past. They long for the good old days” when life was much simpler. People use the phrase “back in the day” frequently. Life was just as challenging then as it is now. Our memories fade and distort the truth.

Keep the past where it belongs, in the past. Keep your focus on what lies ahead. We don’t know what is around the next corner, but I believe it’s gotta be something good…

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Public Support

Have you ever been honored by your profession or made to feel like a VIP in some way? Perhaps you fly First Class and receive privileges set apart from the Coach passengers. Recognition is nice, but it’s not sustainable.

In 2019 I resigned my membership in Austin Country Club. It is a wonderful club and has an air of exclusivity to it. But what made the difference was the people who worked there. Austin Country Club did a remarkable job with their hiring practices. I have never been much of a country club guy, but I enjoyed getting to know the staff and learning their stories.

Everyone wants to belong, to be part of something bigger than themselves. It begins with our family. Why do you think kids join gangs? It’s due in part because they aren’t feeling accepted at home. Their fellow gang members give them something missing from their lives.

Many people I encounter are dealing with an emptiness inside. People try to fill the hole in their heart with drugs, affairs, gambling or sex. Those are not fulfilling in the long term.

God alone is the only one who accepts us unconditionally. He created us and He wants to see us live full lives on this side of eternity. You don’t have to become a religious nut to get it. Just believe. God will take care of the rest…

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They Called Him Stoneface

He was born in 1925 in the tiny town of Mission, Texas. His was a star athlete and went on to play football for The University of Texas. Included in his early adult experiences were 30 combat missions during World War II.

Tom Landry played defensive back for the New York Giants, eventually becoming a player/coach. It was this experience that shaped his relationship with his players when he became coach of the expansion team in Dallas in 1960.

Those first years were tough. The team finally had their first winning season in 1966. This started a remarkable 20 year run of winning seasons. Landry believed in his system. Players would tell you it was complicated, but it worked.

The players called Landry “Stoneface” behind his back. He had a serious demeanor, and didn’t allow himself to develop relationships with his players. In an interview Landry said it was because it would be too hard to let a player go if you had a friendship with him.

Someone once asked running back Walt Garrison if he ever saw Landry smile. Garrison thought for a moment and said, “no. But I’ve only been here 7 years!”

Tom Landry had character. He was the same man every day, on or off the field. His players respected him, even if he wasn’t one of the boys…

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Run Away

Little children threaten to run away from home when they don’t get their way. It’s kinda funny when you think about it. The kid is five and he can’t drive. How far will those little legs get you?

When I was a child, my home life was one of stress, chaos and violence. My mind was in a constant state of “fight or flight.” I wanted to run away but was too scared to actually do it.

Confusion reigned in me. The television shows in those days were typically about family life. Seeing TV families and how they functioned together made me wonder why my family was so screwed up. I was naive, too, because I didn’t understand that the shows were scripted.

My choice as a young adult was to try to run away from myself. Drugs and alcohol numbed me from the pain I felt. But when I sobered up the life I was running from was still there. Einstein’s quote about insanity being doing the same thing over and over again but expecting different results was my life.

Through psychotherapy I was able to jettison the doubts and insecurities I took into adulthood. It took work, but today I’m free of the need to run away from who I am and who God created me to be. There are still challenges in my life, but I face them rather than avoid them.

If you had a similar background, I encourage you to get professional help. Do the work. There is freedom on the other side of pain…

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Experiential Knowledge

Education is important. No sane person would say differently. But being educated is vastly different from being proficient.

When Horace Mann created the first education curriculum in the United States, he focused on teaching the head, the heart and the hands. In other words, teach the students intellect, emotion and application. Today teachers are forced to teach to the test without true consideration of whether the students learned anything or not.

This isn’t the teachers fault. It’s not the administrators fault, either. To qualify for federal funding schools must show that their students are passing standardized tests.

Some schools have done things in a unique manner. They give students the opportunity to learn a trade. This is great because not every student will go to college. But they need to be able to make a living. Knowing a trade accomplishes this.

I have great respect for educators. People teach because they want to make a difference in the lives of their students. They aren’t in it for fame or fortune.

Experience is a wonderful teacher. And where would we be without plumbers and electricians? We would be left to our own devices. Not a good idea…

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When Life Gives You Lemons

You know the saying, “when life gives you lemons, make lemonade.” It’s all about your perspective. Do you view your challenges as setbacks or opportunities?

The word “problem” is not in my vocabulary. Challenge is a more suitable word. That’s all problems are, simply challenges to overcome. Let’s not make them more than they are.

Were you born into poverty? Poverty is a mindset you can conquer with the right attitude. Control your thoughts and you will change your outcome. Was your family abusive? Stop the cycle. You can do it if you’re willing.

It really is up to you. You aren’t a victim and you aren’t powerless over your circumstances. And as you are changing your thoughts and beliefs, God will place people and opportunities along the way to help you. Have faith in this. But you must take the first step.

Have you decided to make lemonade today? Maybe throw a little tequila in there to make it taste even better. That’s your choice, too…

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Living Large

If you live in the United States, you probably have a pretty good standard of living. Having a few dollars in your pocket makes you better off than over 90% of the world. But have you gotten comfortable?

There are many people who are struggling to get by. Mental health is at its worst. We are naturally selfish so if we give into our selfish ways we can easily ignore the problems of others. But that’s not how God intended us to be.

God cares for widows and orphans. The oppressed have a soft spot in His heart. He loves all of us the same. We are most like our Creator when we are using our talents to help mankind. Even a kind word makes a difference.

Scripture tells us that God wants the heart of man. He cares more about this than our offerings. We must prioritize justice and mercy, showing kindness and compassion even when we don’t feel like it.

I encourage you to look for opportunities to help others. Our actions are the best Gospel we can spread…

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How Good Are You?

It’s been said many times that if you feel the need to point out how great you are, you probably aren’t. That’s just insecurity on display. It’s like the people who post their first class airline seat on their social media platforms. No one ever brags about scoring a coach seat!

Lou Gehrig is a name from baseball. Gehrig was called “The Iron Horse” because he played in 2,130 consecutive games which was a record. He did his work quietly, never calling attention to his individual accomplishments. For Gehrig, it was all about the team.

Politicians are always looking for microphones. The next sound bite is something they will try to use to their advantage. Most of them are full of hot air, their words meaningless. Yet some people hold onto their words like it’s the gospel truth.

Humility is not overrated. We admire the people who do great things but don’t go out of their way to put the spotlight on themselves. There is an art to self promotion without going overboard.

Gehrig’s record stood for 56 years until Cal Ripken, Jr. broke it. Lou Gehrig was a class act. Ripken is, too…

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