Accepting others as they are is important to promoting civility in society. Acceptance is not approval. I can accept you without approving your lifestyle or decisions.
I have witnessed people making demands that they be accepted! Making this type of demand is a sign of defensiveness. Perhaps they should read the book, “How To Win Friends and Influence People.” It might be a great help to them.
Communication with others is the key to connecting with people. It’s not a threat to listen to people you might not agree with. In fact, you grow because you get to see the world through a different lens.
We all want to be accepted, and healthy acceptance starts with accepting yourself. See yourself as the beautiful creation God made. He didn’t make a mistake when creating you, nor does God second guess Himself. That’s good enough for me…
this is key to being child of the most high, to learn how to see people through Gods eyes… I know I probably can’t compare to his unconditional love for all his children. It is one of my prayers every night, I really can “accept” folks as they are, however that looks.. I never feel like anyone is “ less than”, actually has enriched relationships, I probably would have missed out on so much, thank you , John, your compassion never ceases to amaze me! Stay Blessed
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