Don’t you love it when you have a conversation with someone who really understands you? It’s so natural that it feels effortless.

Everyone wants to be seen, heard and understood. That’s universal whether you are a world leader or a line worker at General Motors. But there is another conversation that needs to be addressed.

How are you talking to yourself? We are constantly in conversation inside our minds. Are you focusing on your good qualities or tearing yourself down? I instructed my children to focus on what you do right. If they ever want to be reminded of their mistakes, ask anyone. The world is taking inventory.

Sadly, most people aren’t pulling for you to succeed. That’s just how it is, even though I don’t understand why. Don’t help them out by beating yourself up. Forgive yourself for past mistakes and resolve to do better.

Make a mental note of what you say to yourself. Speak the truth, always. The better you are, the better people you attract into your life. Guaranteed!